Is it really just about that last 10 pounds?

I've been making excuses for that last ten pounds for almost 12 years now.  It's time to lose it, maybe we can do it together.  But I realize now it's not all about weight, it's about other things too, raising kids (tweens and teenagers in my case), being happy in general, passionate and secure in your marriage,  working, and on the horizon - approaching menopause and eventually empty nest. I am hoping to inspire others and maybe understand myself a little better in the process.  Join my journey....